Is your kid in the hospital yet again?
Here’s the thing mom, you won’t be able to get your kid to follow your instructions or do anything you want if you don’t do the following. It took me a long time to figure it out: thirteen years to be exact. I have 13 years of experience in what horrible parenting looks like. Because of a number of reasons, my daughter was in and out of psychiatric hospitals for 3-4 years. Between suicidal attempts to homicidal ideations, my daughter tried it all. She’s pulled butcher knives out on my children, myself, and others. It's been quite a traumatic experience. She drank bleach after realizing she really hurt her little sister. When it comes to a traumatic parenting experience, I’ve had a walk in the park. 😊 No, really! It’s been a piece of cake! Fun really! Lots! For you though, I’d rather save you the trouble. This is how I finally stopped my daughter from going in and out of the hospital.
You have to start stimulating your children in all of their five senses. Healing a child is so easy. The hard part is being rejected along the way, but you can’t react. Imagine they are already healed. Easy as cake, but not easy if you don’t know-how. You know how you have an electrical problem and have to call an electrician? Then he gets there and does something to fix it in 2 minutes, and your mad because now you have to pay that licensed professional $150 for the initial charge of $150? Yeah, this is very similar. Here’s the deal. I was abusing my daughter in all her senses, and I had no idea what I was doing. Hurting her wasn’t intentional, but it happened. This is how I started fixing it.
So, the Bible says that the imagination is the heart. (Genesis 8:21) Then it says that the spirit is the mind. (Ephesians 4:23) I don’t read the Bible in scriptures. The Bible for me is a puzzle I try to put together because where two or more scriptures, that is the truth. I need to see more than one scripture saying the same thing to see the meaning. The Bible is quantum physical law. The quantum physical law is matter and antimatter: the spiritual realm. The Bible is the fight between matter and antimatter. It is the law of attraction. The secret is a mix of the Bible and quantum physical law: Newton’s third law of motion. It is the imagery of the Chi Energy and the soul or lights of the chakras. This is how to unblock the chakras in your children. See, we’re trees. This is a picture of the brain and the nervous system. It shows the tree that all of ancient civilization has identified us as; the only thing is, we’ve been speaking different languages saying the same thing. They call this in Christianity, The Tower of Babel. Where people in civilization got together to build a sky scrapper that would reach heaven. Then, the Bible tells the story of how God came down and scattered their speech and language; thus the name: Babel. Then, the internet came along and started uniting all of us. Different religions saying the same thing, in different languages. Different political entities saying the same thing, in different languages. All being united by united by science: by neurology, by anatomy, by ecology, by physics, by psychology, by religions, by government, by good. Simply put, by the Law of Attraction and the Law of Assumption.
This is what the human brain looks like without the rest of the human anatomy. We are trees. The Bible references this image a lot. For example, the story of when Jesus heals the blind man, the man tells him he could only see men walking around like trees. People thought that Christ made a mistake, and the job wasn’t finished This is not a coincidence or mistake. Jesus was healing his spiritual eyes first. It was the cognitive mind Jesus had to heal. Science shows that the cognitive mind is the part of the brain responsible for functions of the 5 senses. Cognition refers to "the mental action or process of acquiring knowledge and understanding through thought, experience, and the senses.” This is the part of the brain that is the “heart, imagination, and soul” according to the Bible. It is the Chi Energy according to the Chinese. It is the 7 lights of the chakras according to the Indians in 1500 to 500 BC. The Ancient Indian culture believed that chakra energy belonged to God Trees. They ate and received light. When Kaguya Ōtsutsuki (strongly correlates to Eve in the Garden of Eden) ate the fruit the God Tree bore (ate from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil), she became the first person in Earth's history to wield chakra. With her new-found power, she ended all the wars that plagued the lands. Her sons, Hamura and Hagoromo Ōtsutsuki, (correlates to Eve’s two sons: Cain and Abel) were the first people to be born with chakra, light, chi energy, or a soul. This strongly correlates to the Koran, the Bible in Genesis, and Hinduism. The prisms from Ancient Egypt also have captured what the Hindus, Chinese, and Christians believe.
It’s through unblocking the chakras that people, like Jesus, can walk on water. When the light of chakras run out, the body loses energy entirely and dies. In the Bible, it tells us not to lose light, to always keep the lamp burning. In Ecology, the light comes from the top of the trees. See, leaves, flowers, and stems have light receptors that transport light to the root for growth. The energy to grow always comes from light. This is how to harness Chi Energy.
The Bible says in Hebrew 5:13-14, “13 For everyone who partakes only of milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, for he is a babe. 14 But solid food belongs to those who are [a]of full age, that is, those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.” What it all boils down to are the cognitive mind, soul, heart, imagination: and senses. This is how I started to heal my daughter. From this pretense and with the following techniques, I was able to heal her soul, heart, and imagination, and balance her chakra energy light.
Keep your baby out of psych wards by simply treating the 5 senses.
Treat the Eyes: The Sense of Sight
You need to stop being a boring mom. Seriously! One day I was eating ice cream, and the taste was delicious. The sight was not. It didn’t make my eyes happy because it was dull. I’d gotten a butter pecan and coconut ice cream, which was all white and boring. When I suddenly got to the park and sat on the bench to eat, and a thought crossed my mind, “your ice cream is boring.” I consider these thoughts, God’s voice. I knew I needed to feed my eyes with color and beauty. Therefore, children's play areas always have vibrant colors. This is also why their imaginations are so vivid. It’s because they are eating with their eyes. Their imaginations are fed through the sense of sight, and so is yours, momma! Side note, you need more vibrant colors in your living space. Always look at colors. This will also keep your family’s sight healthy. “The human eye and brain together translate light into color. Light receptors within the eye transmit messages to the brain, which produces the familiar sensations of color. Newton observed that color is not inherent in objects. Rather, the surface of an object reflects some colors and absorbs all the others.” (https://www.pantone.com/articles/color-fundamentals/how-do-we-see-color#:~:text=The%20human%20eye%20and%20brain,and%20absorbs%20all%20the%20others.)
Treat the Nose: Breath & Meditate
The Holy Trinity is the prism the body makes, and Hinduism teaches in meditative states. Or like I used to say when I was little, sitting crisscross applesauce. There is power in the position because it aligns the body with where the mind is. The mind should always be in a constant set of empowerment. Once the mind is set on empowerment in self, those thoughts from the top of the mind will transfer to the rest of the nervous system. In looking at the image of the brain and the nervous system being the roots of the tree, thinking empowering thoughts will always cause the brain to transport the energy from the top of the frontal lobe (forehead and where the cognitive brain is) to the rest of the body’s nervous system down to the feet of the body. Meditating in the form of a prism with hands on top of the knees will make a well-balanced triangle on the bottom, sides, and front. This stance relaxes the body, and its why children are always sitting crisscrossing applesauce. I meditate with my children by playing board games with them on the floor. Whatever game I’m playing, I make sure I play it on the ground. What I mean by ground is the bottom portion of my body is making the perfect triangle. Defining my most important roles: the mother that nurtures, the daughter that understands what it is to need my mom to play with me, and the child in me that needs to play to always be in a state of rejuvenation. Playing is to be born again, repeatedly. Playing not only heals our children, but it heals the momma, too. It roots you and secures you. Then, it roots you and secures your babies, too. Christians say, “to enter heaven, you must be like a child.” The Bible says that in various scriptures. You won’t need to force your children to meditate and close their eyes to meditate in a perfect pose. Meditation doesn’t look like that in children. When they are in a state of playing, their bodies are naturally relaxed and poised to breathe deeply. It’s important not to force the meditation because it will block their breathing. They need to feel safe in order for the brain to transport oxygen through the bloodstream. Most importantly of all, the bones are an important organ and tissue. They are alive and need oxygen to function properly. Our bones keep us alive by the production of blood: the life of humans. You can bring life back to a traumatized child by just playing with them. Aside from meditation, having wonderful scents surrounding your children is important for their self-love and love for their surroundings. Simple shower gels, lotions, strongly scented flowers like lilies or jasmine, home-cooked meals, fragrant laundry detergent, and non-toxic cleaning supplies all give the sense of smell a boost of energy.
Treat the Mouth: Protect their Taste
I know it seems so mundane but remind your children to brush their teeth twice a day. Bad bacteria convert sugar particles into acid. (www.hindsdaledental.com) This isn’t a good thing for the entire body for the simple fact that it can affect the entire bone organ. See, sugar particles are acid, rightfully so. It helps us break down the foods in our digestive system in a perfect ecosystem within our being, but what happens when the sugar begins to overtake our bodies. Sugar particles become acid, compromises the pH levels of the mouth, which is the perfect environment for bacteria to build. From here, plaque builds, then tartar. Before you know it, it weakens the tooth enamel. Cavities, gum disease, and tooth decay are all death to the entire body. Considering, our teeth are the only part of our bone organ that is exposed. Being that our bones are responsible for the white and red blood cell generation, we really have to be careful of the way we take care of our teeth. The mouth harbors more than 700 species of bacteria: good and bad. The good bacteria promote health, but what happens when we create a volume of bad bacteria that overpowers the good? We constantly swallow all of the harmful bacteria, and it starts to become acidic to the lining of our stomachs. The lining of our stomachs already produces hydrochloric acid that lowers the pH of stomach. A low pH activates pepsin. Pepsin is a stomach enzyme that serves to digest proteins found in digesting food. So… the pH of the mouth is imbalanced, and the production of hydrochloric acid is affected; therefore, the stomach is not able to produce pepsin to help digest foods created a gut health problem. Love is clean, feels good, and takes care of all. The simplest way to give our children love through their sense of taste is by having them brush their teeth at least twice if not after ever meal. They will NOT want to brush their teeth. Side Note! LOL, so make it fun. Buy the toothpaste, toothbrush, floss, and mouth wash THEY want. Pick out three of the healthiest and let them choose from your selection. Both of you are empowered in your relationship this way. Great guidance without them feeling controlled. You can even write a sight word on the vanity mirror in the bathroom! Two birds with one stone, that’s what I say!!
Treat the Ears: The Sense of Hearing
I know a couple that does not spank their children. They’re very against it and hate it! Ok, that’s cool, but they yell at their kids at the top of their lungs. This is what I like to call sensory overload. Did you know that autism, down’s syndrome, and ADHD are all sensory processing disorders? In essence if we over stress this sense, we altar how the brain processes speech, potentially increasing the difficulty in distinguishing speech sounds according to neuroscientists. Exposure to intensely loud sounds leads to permanent damage of the hair cells, which act as sound receivers to the ear. (www.sciencedaily.com) This will lead to other serious damages to the brain. The inner ear is affected in the human body when the fibers in the ear are unbalanced which causes loss of hearing. This is a symptom that’s called vertigo. Vertigo can cause a multitude of issues within the body, including the stress on the cerebellum and the brain stem. This part of the brain is what neurologists call the reptilian brain. This my friend is horrible. It’s what will actually cause your child to become narcissistic in nature because this part of the brain becomes overactive with the acute stress from the sound waves of heightened speech volumes. What does this mean for you and your child? It will cause the both of you, or your entire household for that matter, to be in a constant state of self-preservation. This will cause the child to do whatever they see fit to survive under your supervision, and you will no longer be the parent; you will become the enemy. The imagination is triggered by the senses. The Bible calls the imagination the heart in Genesis 8:21. The Bible then refers to our souls as our light. Interestingly enough, Hindus refer to this light as the core chakra. The one that grounds us. This chakra is at the tailbone, and at the end of the brain stem. When this red light is unbalanced, it causes primitive behaviors of survival to flair. What that means for you is, more Child Protective Cases opened, more opposition, less cooperation, and an overall opposition to authority causing criminal and deviant ideals. Moral of the story, you can only control you. Discipline is teaching them what to do, how to do, when to do, why to do, where to do. Not yelling. The problem is that it hinders blood flow to the brain, causing synapses to misfire. Synapses are neurotransmitters that transport electricity through the body. Causing the body to charge. Causing stress in the nerve cells because the nervous system starts to scream run or fight: the fear response in the brain. Fear makes all humans animal like. When one brain cell talks to the other, that is how the brain communicates to the body. If a synapse is unable to transport the electrical charge, the brain won’t be able to release the chemicals called neurotransmitters. The receiver then stays quiet and doesn’t allow the brain the proper flow of regular brain function. This is the part of the brain that affects memory. Don’t think there’s a way to heal this? Of course, there is, common. The human brain repairs itself during sleep. Ensure your children get enough sleep. Melatonin is a natural supplement, but it’s a supplement. This means it’s just an additive to enhance another chemical. Which also means, it can have negative side effects that counteract what we are trying to achieve in a defiant child. I’ve used it to regulate sleep, but the best method of regulating sleep is by having a sleep schedule, helping the body naturally relax through all senses. Warm tea or milk, warm bath, soothing music, lavender smells, and low lighting.
Treat the Skin: Sense of Touch
Last but not least, the sense of touch. Oooh this one’s a good one. I used to be an adamant believer in spankings. I was spanked, my mom was spanked, her mom was spanked, my great grandma was spanked, etc. Guys listen, that’s why I come from extreme poverty. I mean, my village was condemned by the Puerto Rican government in 2010. The entire village had to move out to housing projects the government built for that very village. I was sleeping one night and got very sick. I threw up in my sleep and because of the poor structure of our home, ants came in by the smell and swarmed me. My entire face was swollen from bites; one eye was bit shut and the other eye was halfway there. I looked like I was in the ring with Ali. My family freaked and sent me back to Florida with my biological mother. Shortly after, I was taken away and put into the foster care system. What’s the point? Any form of spanking is abuse. I justified it with, “I only spank my children on their butt or thighs. The world is going to give them a worse spanking than this. My spankings are mercy.” Anytime we justify what we do with, “there are worst things that happen,” we are absolutely, positively, immensely wrong. The nerves in the skin organ are called the sensory nerves: the hair follicles, temperature follicles, the skin organ that contains three layers, and blood vessels. Affecting this organ in a negative way, is the most cyclical way to infect the brain with vertigo symptoms, mental illness, and autism. I have a friend that was recently diagnosed with autism. She’s extremely intelligent and high functioning, but she is uncensored in human interaction. She finds it hard to relate to others, and it has made her cynical in behavior. What does this mean for me and you as a parent? How do we heal a child that has been physically abused and traumatized? Even if the abuser has been us inadvertently? Sooth the skin! Man, it’s so simple that it’s criminal. I started hugging more, rubbing more, making sure I picked out a fun or good smelling lotion, warm not hot or prolonged baths, and generating more red blood cells. You can do this by simple cooking more red meat or beef, spinach and kale, prunes or raisins, beans, legumes, egg yolks, nuts for folic acid… Copper found in chicken, shellfish, liver, beans, cherries, and nuts. Vitamin A in sweet potato, squash, carrots, watermelon, grapefruit, and cantaloupe.
Law of Attraction & Law of Assumption
The last thing I wanted to mention, yet most important is visualize them being different. I had a day dream one day, some call it a vision; it was in my mind’s eye. God the Father came in my office, he asked for my hand. He did this three times before he took me where he wanted me to go. Finally, he took me to my daughter’s bedroom and sat on the floor in front of her barbies. I just stared at him. Then, he started playing barbies. As he began to play, him metamorphosed into my 5-year-old. She looked up at me with her big brown eyes. I was stunned. My mouth fell open and was frozen within myself for several moments. Neville Goddard once said all the characters in the Bible were states of mind. He said that the last state of mind you’ll go through is the mind set of King David. If you don’t know King David, he is said to have been the earthly or human father of God in Jesus. Neville said that you will know you have gone through all the states when God the Father calls you Father (Mother for women). I remember being at the gym when I heard this. I’d done the 40-day fast and have been able to live my life in delta for months without knowing it. There is no other quick start to your future, except the 40-day no food fast which I explain in another article. I wondered, at the gym, why I hadn’t gone through this state of mind yet. Then, I saw the imagery in my subconscious mind - third eye. I finally understood, children are the Father. I bet you’ll start looking at your baby a lot differently. I know I did! It completely changed the state of mind within me, and THAT is the prerequisite to changing your child. You do it, with your own mind!
All I do is imagine good things about my children. I imagine their bones are at optimal health and generating a healthy reproductive amounts of red and white blood cells. When I give them a positive word of affirmation, I don’t just intend it to their minds. I direct it to their blood and bones. This is what prayer is, intention. It’s the law of attraction by imagining the future not in the future but in the now. It’s now. They are whole and healed now. The future is closer than you think. This is how you harness the wind and calm their storms.